Mavericks and contact sync

Since Mavericks it is not possible to sync the own contact without iCloud. If you don't want to put all in the big cloud you have to find another solutions.
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How to sync the contacts without iCloud

To avoid to use the Apple iCloud you have to search for an own CardDav server. For example owncloud.
download the owncloud
and unzip the archive
owncloud.org
After that you have to do some adjustments with our mac and our iPhone.
Mac: Contacts -> Preferences (picture is attached)
iPhone: Preferences of your mail accounts (picture is attached)

After the setup it will be run automatically.